The decorations and cooking supplies are already out in the stores.
The holidays will be starting soon. There are a lot of things to think
about and a lot of things to get organized.
Yes, “Organized“, “Stress Free” and “Thanksgiving” can be used in the same sentence.
It
all starts with the word “organized”. Don’t let it scare you. Embrace
it. By being organized and planning ahead you can actually enjoy a
holiday.
Start by deciding on what you want your
holiday to be like.
- Do you really want to serve a sit down dinner for
twenty (20) people?
- Or would a buffet be acceptable for you?
If you really
want a fancy sit down dinner party but twenty (20) people is too much
for you to handle then cut the guest list down.
If you
really want all twenty (20) people there then maybe you should consider a
buffet.
You can make Thanksgiving as simple or as complicated as you want - it all depends on how organized you are willing to be.
A good way to keep the stress levels down is to
divide and conquer.
Enlist your family for help. Don’t take “no” for an answer. This is your holiday too and you have a right to enjoy it.
And we all know that old saying “if Mom isn’t happy, no one is happy”.
Start at least two (2) weeks before Thanksgiving.
Decide on the type of gathering (formal or informal), the size of the guest list and the menu.
Don’t
attempt to make something new for dinner or try out a new dessert that
day. It could turn out to be a disaster and that would cause you more
stress. If you really want to try a new dish - test it out prior to
Thanksgiving.
Menu: Do you really want to serve
cranberry relish and sweet potato’s even if you don’t like them and you only
serve them because “they are always served at Thanksgiving”?
Make up your own menu (yes, it is radical). Serve something different. Serve something you like!
If
you are having a small Thanksgiving dinner don’t feel obligated to
serve Turkey. How about stuffed Cornish Hen? Or duck? Or stuffed chicken? The
possibilities are endless.
Start new traditions!
It’s not easy to buck the system but once you make up your mind that
you deserve to be happy and stress free on a Holiday you will wonder why
you waited so long.
Remember, the whole point of a
Holiday is family and friends and spending “quality” time together.
Everything does not have to be perfect. Be thankful for what you have
and not for what you don’t.
By starting early and making lists and getting as much done ahead of time as possible you will avoid a lot of stress.
Once
you have your menu planned work backwards and make up a timetable to
what needs to be done. For example: if you want your dinner to be served
at 6 p.m., what time do you have to put the turkey into the oven? What
time do the potato’s and vegetables need to be started? Just make a list
and put it on your refrigerator door so that you don’t have to second
guess yourself and aren’t panicking at the last minute.
When
your family or guests start to arrive your mind and attention will be
elsewhere - so a list can help you stay on track. Don’t leave anything to
chance.
A few days before Thanksgiving:
* Shop for all of the essentials, including as much of the food as can be purchased ahead of time
* Make sure that you have enough spices and things that you will need for the food (and rarely buy)
* Do any of the baking or make any desserts that can be made ahead of time
* Thaw the turkey (the size will determine how many days it takes to thaw in the refrigerator)
* Buy the wine or any beverages
The day before Thanksgiving:
* Buy any last minute items at the grocery store
*
Chop anything that can be chopped ahead of time (vegetables, bread for
stuffing…but do not stuff the turkey ahead of time) and put them in plastic
bags so that you will be all ready to go the next day
* Make sure you have enough ice
* Prepare any of the food items that can be made ahead of time
* Make your family aware of exactly what you need them to help you with on Thanksgiving.
*
Having assigned tasks for your kids and spouse ahead of time takes away
some of the stress of what’s expected of them the next day.
The night before Thanksgiving:
* Set the table and get out all of your platters and serving dishes.
*
Make sure that you have enough dishes and silverware. If you don’t, now
is the time to call one of your guests and ask to borrow something.
Don’t wait until the last minute to find out that you broke the gravy
boat last Thanksgiving and never replaced it.
Thanksgiving Day:
* Wake up early so that you can have some “you” time to have coffee and relax before
the day starts (it will get stressful enough later, so the morning might be the only time you have)
* Read over your lists and timetable
* Gather all of your food and cooking utensils, pots and pans ....
* Measure out everything that you can ahead of time and set it aside
* Follow your time table and start making the food according to the schedule
* Once the food comes out of the oven let it rest a while (you can cover it with foil)
* Start cutting the meat and plating the food
* Have family members start their assigned tasks (setting out and serving food, pouring the drinks…)
ENJOY your meal…… sit and talk…..
After the meal:
Some people like to
leave the dishes and the mess until the next day. And sometimes I wish I
could too, but its worse the next day when you get up and walk into a
mess. I’d rather get it done and over with.
Make quick work of it (or as much as will fit into the dishwasher) and then sit and relax and spend time with your family.
Remember,
a Holiday is supposed to be enjoyable. If it’s not, figure out why it
isn’t and change it. Skip the big complicated meal, the fancy desserts
and the good china and make it as simple as you are able to handle.
Start your own tradition….and make it about family!
Happy Holiday !
