Having a big house and new clothes and being able to do whatever you want is great. But at what price?
If you have to work at a job that you hate and work fifty (50) or sixty (60) hours a week and rarely get to see your spouse and kids, is it worth it?
For some people the answer is yes. They are all about materialistic things.
For others they just want to be comfortable and their priority is their family.
But for some people they have to work at a job they don’t like and work long hours because that is the only way to make ends meet.
The bottom line is “what are your priorities?”
In today’s society it seems to be all about “things”. People don’t spend time together as a family. They don’t eat together or play together. Everything is about “instant gratification.
It’s sad. And it won’t be until the adults are older and the kids are gone and don’t have time for them and don’t participate in their lives that the reality of the situation will sink it.
So…. change it!
Organize your priorities!
Don’t waste your time or money on “keeping up with the neighbors”. Keep up with your family. Spend time with your family. Have family dinners. Have family “time” (games, talking, activities….).
Yes, the kids will whine and complain. So what! They will get over it. But if you don’t start acting as a family now you will turn around and your ten year old will be going off to college and you wonder what happened to those lost years. Years that you can never get back.
So cut out the texting and being a zombie in front of the computer and video games and go back to the old fashioned way of actually talking to one another and interacting.
Stop shopping and buying their love. Stop filling your home with “things”. Fill your home with your family.
Make your family your priority. Don’t lose that precious time that you have with your kids. They will be gone before you know it.
Less Clutter = Less Stress (sm) ….. in your home, your business and your life.
Organizational Consulting Services
www.organizationalconsultingservices.com
Monday, October 25, 2010
Monday, October 18, 2010
START YOUNG – GET KIDS ORGANIZED
It’s never too early to start teaching your kids to be neat and organized. When my grandchild was only two years old she knew that before she left my house to go back home she had to put her toys away. She knew that I had a toy basket where I put all of her books and toys and that’s where everything went. No excuses. I like my home neat and I expected her to help. All it took was my showing her how to put the toys back in the basket and she quickly followed my example.
An organized home doesn’t miraculously happen. It takes everyone in the home to create an environment that is organized and functions smoothly. Having kids doesn’t mean that your home has to be disorganized or a cluttered mess. Children learn from their parents. If you start expecting things from your children at a young age and teach them responsibility you can have a home that is neat and organized.
The point is to teach your child some valuable tools for the future. It is really important to give them encouragement and let them know that they did a good job.
The problem that I seem to have run into is that most of the parents that I deal with have no expectations of their children. Toys and clothes are strewn all over the house and the children are never told to put them away.
Or if they are told, the kids ignore the “request” and the parents ignore the fact that they are being ignored. See the cycle?
In today’s society most households have two parents that work, therefore it’s more important than ever that kids help out around the house. Parents are parents…not maids and butlers. Maybe it’s the fact that both parents do work and have less time than they did years ago that they feel guilty about not being around and therefore allow their children to get away with not helping. They are not doing their children any favors.
By not teaching them to help around the house or to pick up after themselves they are setting them up for failure.
An organized child will do better in school. If they have their rooms organized and their clothes organized they will have everything at their fingertips and will not be late for school and they will be prepared for their classes.
Some parents think that just because they themselves are not very neat and organized means that they can’t or don’t have the right to tell their children to pick up after themselves. This is where I have to remind them that they are the parent. They have rights that children don’t. Remember the old saying: “do what I say and not what I do”?
How many parents are overwhelmed by math and science today? Does that mean that your kids don’t have to do their homework? Just because you don’t get it?
It’s the same way with being organized. Just because you may not be the most organized person doesn’t mean that you can’t expect your child to be. If you can’t teach them to be organized yourself then you can hire a professional organizer to come in and teach them to be organized… just as you would hire a swim instructor if you can’t swim or an ice skating instructor if you can’t skate.
I’ve had parents hire me to teach their children how to organize their room and organize their closets and show them how to fold their clothes (instead of just shoving them into their drawers). Kids tend to listen to everyone except their parents.
Give your child the tools they need to be successful. Start them young and expect things from them. They will thank you….later…when they are grown up.
Some things that kids can do:
2 – 4 year olds
Put away toys
Pick up clothes off of the floor
4 – 6 year olds
Clean up spills
Wipe kitchen table
Learn to make bed
Learn to set the table
Match socks
6 – 8 year olds
Make the bed
Put dishes away
Sweep the floors
Put clothes into the hamper
Set the table
Clear the table
Learn to separate clothes for the laundry
Dust
8 – 12 year olds
Put their own laundry away
Help make dinner
Make their own lunches
Rake leaves
Help wash the car
Empty garbage
Clean the bathroom
Help with actually doing the laundry
Weed the garden
13 – 15 year olds
Clean the entire house
Learn to manage their schedule
Mow the lawn
Yard work
Wash the car on their own
Babysit
16 – 18 year olds
Get an after school job
Go to the grocery store
Run errands as needed
Learn how to make a resume
Learn how to manage money
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
An organized home doesn’t miraculously happen. It takes everyone in the home to create an environment that is organized and functions smoothly. Having kids doesn’t mean that your home has to be disorganized or a cluttered mess. Children learn from their parents. If you start expecting things from your children at a young age and teach them responsibility you can have a home that is neat and organized.
The point is to teach your child some valuable tools for the future. It is really important to give them encouragement and let them know that they did a good job.
The problem that I seem to have run into is that most of the parents that I deal with have no expectations of their children. Toys and clothes are strewn all over the house and the children are never told to put them away.
Or if they are told, the kids ignore the “request” and the parents ignore the fact that they are being ignored. See the cycle?
In today’s society most households have two parents that work, therefore it’s more important than ever that kids help out around the house. Parents are parents…not maids and butlers. Maybe it’s the fact that both parents do work and have less time than they did years ago that they feel guilty about not being around and therefore allow their children to get away with not helping. They are not doing their children any favors.
By not teaching them to help around the house or to pick up after themselves they are setting them up for failure.
An organized child will do better in school. If they have their rooms organized and their clothes organized they will have everything at their fingertips and will not be late for school and they will be prepared for their classes.
Some parents think that just because they themselves are not very neat and organized means that they can’t or don’t have the right to tell their children to pick up after themselves. This is where I have to remind them that they are the parent. They have rights that children don’t. Remember the old saying: “do what I say and not what I do”?
How many parents are overwhelmed by math and science today? Does that mean that your kids don’t have to do their homework? Just because you don’t get it?
It’s the same way with being organized. Just because you may not be the most organized person doesn’t mean that you can’t expect your child to be. If you can’t teach them to be organized yourself then you can hire a professional organizer to come in and teach them to be organized… just as you would hire a swim instructor if you can’t swim or an ice skating instructor if you can’t skate.
I’ve had parents hire me to teach their children how to organize their room and organize their closets and show them how to fold their clothes (instead of just shoving them into their drawers). Kids tend to listen to everyone except their parents.
Give your child the tools they need to be successful. Start them young and expect things from them. They will thank you….later…when they are grown up.
Some things that kids can do:
2 – 4 year olds
Put away toys
Pick up clothes off of the floor
4 – 6 year olds
Clean up spills
Wipe kitchen table
Learn to make bed
Learn to set the table
Match socks
6 – 8 year olds
Make the bed
Put dishes away
Sweep the floors
Put clothes into the hamper
Set the table
Clear the table
Learn to separate clothes for the laundry
Dust
8 – 12 year olds
Put their own laundry away
Help make dinner
Make their own lunches
Rake leaves
Help wash the car
Empty garbage
Clean the bathroom
Help with actually doing the laundry
Weed the garden
13 – 15 year olds
Clean the entire house
Learn to manage their schedule
Mow the lawn
Yard work
Wash the car on their own
Babysit
16 – 18 year olds
Get an after school job
Go to the grocery store
Run errands as needed
Learn how to make a resume
Learn how to manage money
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
Monday, October 11, 2010
ORGANIZE YOUR PANTRY
People always seem to complain that they do not have enough kitchen cabinet or pantry space. The truth is that most people have enough space or at least adequate space. They just don’t use it correctly.
I’ve seen too many kitchen cabinets and pantries where they are just brimming with stuff and the stuff is all over the place. No rhyme of reason.
Canned soup is mixed in with pasta. Tomato sauce is mixed in with cereal and snacks. Drink mixes are thrown in with the rice. No rhyme or reason.
LIKE with LIKE.
That’s the rule. It’s simple and easy and doesn’t require a lot of thinking.
Green beans go with green beans.
Pasta goes with pasta.
Soups go with soup.
Cereal goes with cereal.
Simple.
Easy.
I don’t do complicated.
It’s logical.
Well…that said…. it’s logical to a professional organizer. Most people that I’ve run into just put their food into the pantry without any thought on how it should be stored or in what order.
So….to make your kitchen cabinets and pantry more functional and less crowded, start by taking everything out and placing it on a table by categories.
Put beans with beans. Soups with soups. Cereal with cereal…and so on.
After that is done you can check to see if anything is expired and needs to be thrown out. Or, if you have too many of an item you can donate it to a church or food bank.
Then put things back onto your shelves in an organized and logical manner. Most cans are easily stackable to give you more room.
By doing this you can now easily see what you have and you won’t be buying things that you don’t need.
Remember, an organized kitchen makes a happy cook.
Organizational Consulting Services
www.organizationalconsultingservices.com
I’ve seen too many kitchen cabinets and pantries where they are just brimming with stuff and the stuff is all over the place. No rhyme of reason.
Canned soup is mixed in with pasta. Tomato sauce is mixed in with cereal and snacks. Drink mixes are thrown in with the rice. No rhyme or reason.
LIKE with LIKE.
That’s the rule. It’s simple and easy and doesn’t require a lot of thinking.
Green beans go with green beans.
Pasta goes with pasta.
Soups go with soup.
Cereal goes with cereal.
Simple.
Easy.
I don’t do complicated.
It’s logical.
Well…that said…. it’s logical to a professional organizer. Most people that I’ve run into just put their food into the pantry without any thought on how it should be stored or in what order.
So….to make your kitchen cabinets and pantry more functional and less crowded, start by taking everything out and placing it on a table by categories.
Put beans with beans. Soups with soups. Cereal with cereal…and so on.
After that is done you can check to see if anything is expired and needs to be thrown out. Or, if you have too many of an item you can donate it to a church or food bank.
Then put things back onto your shelves in an organized and logical manner. Most cans are easily stackable to give you more room.
By doing this you can now easily see what you have and you won’t be buying things that you don’t need.
Remember, an organized kitchen makes a happy cook.
Organizational Consulting Services
www.organizationalconsultingservices.com
Monday, October 4, 2010
FOOD PRODUCTS and EXPIRATION DATES
These days a lot of people have pantries where they buy and store large amounts of food. A great idea to save time and money. You only have to shop once and you get discounts for buying in bulk.
But….how long are these foods actually good for?
A lot of foods …at least foods that go in your pantry, have an “expiration date” on them. Or a “sell by” date. Or a “best if used by” date.
What does this all mean?
Well… unfortunately the answer isn’t as simple is you might expect.
Foods like ketchup, mustard, mayonnaise, herbs and many others have “best if used by” dates on them. Meats have “sell by” dates on them.
These dates do not mean that the products are no longer good after that date. It means that, in the case of things like ketchup and mayonnaise (unopened), the products are at their ”best” if “used by” a specific date. After that the textures, consistency or taste might be affected.
For meats the “sell by” date means that the stores want it out of the store and in your home “by” that date. But, you can still have it in your refrigerator after that date.
It’s a bit confusing and scary.
A great website that has a lot of information on “expiration dates” and can answer a lot of questions about those “dates on the cans” is:
http://www.stilltasty.com/
It has tips for storage and how long food lasts. It answers questions such as:
“When should you wash fruit, before you store it in the refrigerator or right before you eat it?”. The answer: “right before you eat it”.
Or… “Is it O.K. to put hot foods directly into the fridge?”. The answer: “yes”.
The website has info on :
* Fruits
* Vegetables
* Dairy & Eggs
* Meat & Poultry
* Fishes & Shellfish
* Nuts & Legumes
* Grains & Pasta
* Condiments & Oils
* Herbs & Spices
* Snacks & Sweets
* Bakes Goods
* Beverages
It’s a great website ! Check it out…and be “more organized”.
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
But….how long are these foods actually good for?
A lot of foods …at least foods that go in your pantry, have an “expiration date” on them. Or a “sell by” date. Or a “best if used by” date.
What does this all mean?
Well… unfortunately the answer isn’t as simple is you might expect.
Foods like ketchup, mustard, mayonnaise, herbs and many others have “best if used by” dates on them. Meats have “sell by” dates on them.
These dates do not mean that the products are no longer good after that date. It means that, in the case of things like ketchup and mayonnaise (unopened), the products are at their ”best” if “used by” a specific date. After that the textures, consistency or taste might be affected.
For meats the “sell by” date means that the stores want it out of the store and in your home “by” that date. But, you can still have it in your refrigerator after that date.
It’s a bit confusing and scary.
A great website that has a lot of information on “expiration dates” and can answer a lot of questions about those “dates on the cans” is:
http://www.stilltasty.com/
It has tips for storage and how long food lasts. It answers questions such as:
“When should you wash fruit, before you store it in the refrigerator or right before you eat it?”. The answer: “right before you eat it”.
Or… “Is it O.K. to put hot foods directly into the fridge?”. The answer: “yes”.
The website has info on :
* Fruits
* Vegetables
* Dairy & Eggs
* Meat & Poultry
* Fishes & Shellfish
* Nuts & Legumes
* Grains & Pasta
* Condiments & Oils
* Herbs & Spices
* Snacks & Sweets
* Bakes Goods
* Beverages
It’s a great website ! Check it out…and be “more organized”.
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Certificate of Study in Hoarding
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Karin E. Fried Earns Certificate in Basic Hoarding Issues
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This certificate encompasses the specialized needs and issues of working with the chronically disorganized client with hoarding issues. To earn this certificate, Fried was required to attend the “Introduction to Compulsive Hoarding” course and classes that explored topics such as compulsive shopping, recycling strategies, and environmental safety. Prior to completing this coursework, Fried earned a Certificate of Study in Chronic Disorganization (CD). Fried has also earned her Level II Chronic Disorganization (CD) Specialist Certificate.
This Specialist Certificate provides in-depth information on chronic disorganization and how to help CD clients manage more effectively in relation to getting and staying organized. In order to earn this certificate, Fried first had to receive her Certificate of Study in Chronic Disorganization. She was also required to complete extensive educational requirements including reading several books and publications, attending numerous teleclasses, and passing a general exam based on her coursework and general knowledge of CD.
My ongoing education allows me to work with clients who are chronically disorganized in a very specific manner,” said Fried. “The benefits of this continuing education are immeasurable as they enhance the quality of service I can provide to my clients.”
The National Study Group on Chronic Disorganization is a non-profit group for professional organizers and related professionals. Its mission is to benefit people affected by chronic disorganization. The NSGCD explores, develops and communicates information, organizing techniques and solutions to professional organizers, related professionals and the public. For more information, please visit www.nsgcd.org.
Organizational Consulting Services provides both business and residential organizing services. Whether your needs are for basic organizing services, chronic disorganization, hoarding or anything else, we can help. For more information, please visit www.organizationalconsultingservices.com or call (440) 666 – 9326.
Monday, September 27, 2010
More Efficient Use of Your Space
A lot of my clients say “I don’t have enough storage space”. And I say to them “yes, you do, you just aren’t utilitizing your space efficiently”.
Another problem is not the “space” but the “stuff”. “Too much stuff”.
How much stuff can one person or one family use ?
The first phase of “finding enough space” is de-cluttering. That means going through all of your stuff and getting rid of things that you no longer use, wear or need. Then there are the things that are broken or too small. Purge these things out of your life.
You have already created more “space” !!!
Now look at your closets. Most closets are designed with only one rod across the top. Very inefficient. By adding another rod you have doubled your space without doubling the size of the closet.
For your closets or pantries that have shelves you can add more space by adding shelf dividers. Again, you have just doubled your space.
If your closets have movable shelves you can change the height of the shelves depending on what you are storing on the shelves. This would also allow you to add more shelves for smaller items.
Under the bed storage is a great way to make use of seldom used space. There are great containers that have wheels that are easy to slide under the bed. You can store extra blankets, sweaters, shoes or any number of things.
Put shelves on walls and make use of wall space. A great idea for books or displaying collectibles so that they don’t take up floor or counter space.
Make use of those “nooks and crannies”. If you really looked you could find all types of small or thin shelving units that can be placed in between things.
Use decorative boxes that can sit out and double as storage.
There are lots of ways to add extra “space” to a small room.
You just have to let your imagination run wild and “think outside the box”.
Remember …… LESS CLUTTER = LESS STRESS SM
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
Another problem is not the “space” but the “stuff”. “Too much stuff”.
How much stuff can one person or one family use ?
The first phase of “finding enough space” is de-cluttering. That means going through all of your stuff and getting rid of things that you no longer use, wear or need. Then there are the things that are broken or too small. Purge these things out of your life.
You have already created more “space” !!!
Now look at your closets. Most closets are designed with only one rod across the top. Very inefficient. By adding another rod you have doubled your space without doubling the size of the closet.
For your closets or pantries that have shelves you can add more space by adding shelf dividers. Again, you have just doubled your space.
If your closets have movable shelves you can change the height of the shelves depending on what you are storing on the shelves. This would also allow you to add more shelves for smaller items.
Under the bed storage is a great way to make use of seldom used space. There are great containers that have wheels that are easy to slide under the bed. You can store extra blankets, sweaters, shoes or any number of things.
Put shelves on walls and make use of wall space. A great idea for books or displaying collectibles so that they don’t take up floor or counter space.
Make use of those “nooks and crannies”. If you really looked you could find all types of small or thin shelving units that can be placed in between things.
Use decorative boxes that can sit out and double as storage.
There are lots of ways to add extra “space” to a small room.
You just have to let your imagination run wild and “think outside the box”.
Remember …… LESS CLUTTER = LESS STRESS SM
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
Monday, September 20, 2010
WHAT CAN A LIFE COACH DO FOR YOU ?
There are so many things that we juggle every day. Work, family, kids, friends, school, extracurricular activities…. How do we manage to fit it all in? How do we manage to keep it all together?
How do we manage not to get lost in our lives?
Everyone is so busy today… and we are all being pulled in so many directions. How do we know if what we are doing is right or wrong?
Sometimes we doubt ourselves. And our life choices.
So how do we get back on track?
One way is to use a “life coach”. Why not? You have a coach for other things in your life.. like your workouts / health, business consultants, career coaches… Why not have a “life coach” that can help with balancing “all” the areas of your life. Balance between work and family. Balance between what you are doing with your life and what you “want” to do.
A life coach will help you figure out your priorities. They can help you figure out what’s stopping you from achieving your goals. They can help you figure out what you want to achieve and how to achieve it.
If your life is in transition they can help you find your direction in life. What’s important in your life. They can help you with a “plan”.
Most people know what they want their life to be like. They just need someone to push them in the right direction. Coaching is a partnership. A life coach will ask you “where you are now”, “where do you want to be” and “what’s stopping you”.
They point you in the right direction…. They help you find it inside of yourself.
Life coaching can cover many aspects of your life. From stress management, career planning, business coaching, family and life balance, time management and so much more.
A life coach looks at things from a different perspective than you do. They are an outsider who can see things that you can’t. They help you get and stay on track.
But…. before you can utilize a life coach you must be ready to change. You must be ready to achieve your goals. To find your direction in life. To listen.
Once you have made up your mind that you want a better life, happier life or more balanced life you will be open to the guidance that a “life coach” can give you.
If you can organize your home and your business… isn’t it about time that you organized your life?
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
How do we manage not to get lost in our lives?
Everyone is so busy today… and we are all being pulled in so many directions. How do we know if what we are doing is right or wrong?
Sometimes we doubt ourselves. And our life choices.
So how do we get back on track?
One way is to use a “life coach”. Why not? You have a coach for other things in your life.. like your workouts / health, business consultants, career coaches… Why not have a “life coach” that can help with balancing “all” the areas of your life. Balance between work and family. Balance between what you are doing with your life and what you “want” to do.
A life coach will help you figure out your priorities. They can help you figure out what’s stopping you from achieving your goals. They can help you figure out what you want to achieve and how to achieve it.
If your life is in transition they can help you find your direction in life. What’s important in your life. They can help you with a “plan”.
Most people know what they want their life to be like. They just need someone to push them in the right direction. Coaching is a partnership. A life coach will ask you “where you are now”, “where do you want to be” and “what’s stopping you”.
They point you in the right direction…. They help you find it inside of yourself.
Life coaching can cover many aspects of your life. From stress management, career planning, business coaching, family and life balance, time management and so much more.
A life coach looks at things from a different perspective than you do. They are an outsider who can see things that you can’t. They help you get and stay on track.
But…. before you can utilize a life coach you must be ready to change. You must be ready to achieve your goals. To find your direction in life. To listen.
Once you have made up your mind that you want a better life, happier life or more balanced life you will be open to the guidance that a “life coach” can give you.
If you can organize your home and your business… isn’t it about time that you organized your life?
Organizational Consulting Services
http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com/
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