As people age and their family size decreases (kids grow up and out) -
they tend to need less room and don't want the responsibility of having
to take care of a large house.
Downsizing - or rightsizing can help them get rid of the extra work needed to run a larger home.
The
problem with a lot of seniors (and all people really) - is that they
have a hard time letting go. They have collected items - precious items -
over the course of 50 or 60 or 70 years - and it's hard to let go.
Their things mean something to them.
However - they might not (and usually don't) mean anything to anyone else. It's all in the eye of the beholder!
Another
issue to consider - is aging and medical issues that force people to
give up their homes and move into assisted living or senior apartments.
They are then forced to make some very hard decisions and get rid of
things - very quickly.
So - do it on your own terms!
Start downsizing/rightsizing as you age. Instead of waiting until you
die to give things to people - do it over time - on your own terms! This way you can see them
enjoy your prized possessions. And if they don't want them - you have
the chance to give them to someone that does!
Take control of your life and your possessions! Don't let someone make these decisions for you!
Downsizing can be a tough process for anyone, but especially
for seniors who find themselves with a large home. More and more are
tackling the huge job of downsizing their living spaces. In fact, about
six percent of Americans between the ages of 55 and 64 move each year,
according to the Over-50 Council of the National Association of Home
Builders. As seniors reach the time to downsize belongings and move
into smaller, more manageable homes, many have a hard time figuring out
what to do with all of the “stuff ” they’ve accumulated over the years.
To have a more simplified lifestyle many seniors decide to move to a smaller, more manageable home.
Following are some tips for seniors downsizing:
• Get rid of the guilt factor
— Many seniors feel they are the “keepers” of their family heirlooms
and have a hard time getting rid of items for which they no longer have
room. And even adult “children” have a hard time with their parents
leaving the “family home” thinking that their childhood memories will be
gone forever.
Instead of waiting to give your children
some of your possessions that you would most likely leave them
anyway - give them these pieces now, especially if you are not using them on a regular basis anyway. They will be able to enjoy them now and you
will be able to watch them enjoy them!
However - please don't guilt your family members into taking things that you like - but they don't. Parents have a tendency to want to give things to their kids - that the kids don't want or have a use for. You might think that you are being kind and generous - but consider the other persons taste and lifestyle. Not everyone uses good china anymore. Don't let your feelings get hurt if they don't want the item. Give it to someone that will appreciate it. It's your choice.
If younger
family members are not interested in taking the items then consider
donating them to a worthy cause. Some organizations purchase furniture,
high-end clothing, and porcelain, and then sell those items to raise
money for specific causes or charities.
Professional
organizers can help seniors sort through household items to
strategically figure out what will work in their new space. They also
can help seniors identify which organizations to turn to that are best
at finding new homes for family heirlooms.
•
Find movers specializing in senior needs
— Moving is stressful for everyone, but some moving companies
specialize in making the transition easier for seniors, and professional
organizers can help find the perfect “mover match” for a client. A
professional organizer can help pare down items before the move and
make the process easier at moving time.
Some
professional organizers will also help with things such as helping the
clients hang pictures on the walls for clients unable to do so
themselves, handling the change of address and utilities, setting up
electronics at a new home, and much more.
• Have a professional organizer reassess every five to ten years
— As seniors get older, modern appliances or high shelving can become
more difficult to use or simply unnecessary considering their lifestyle
changes. Hire a professional organizer to evaluate and reassess your
needs every five to ten years to make sure your home is still working
for you.
For example, seniors who usually eat dinner
alone should bring two to three sets of dinnerware to their level
instead of keeping everything in out-of-reach cabinetry. Sometimes
seniors don’t realize everyday activities and household chores can be
made easier just by adjusting the setup in their homes. Professional
organizers are great resources to help identify easy ways seniors can
simplify to improve their overall quality of life.
Less Clutter = Less Stress SM in
your home, your business and your life
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