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Showing posts with label Disorganization. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Disorganization. Show all posts

Sunday, October 22, 2023

Factors Associated with Disorganization - There are Reasons.....

A lot of people think that disorganization is just about being lazy or not caring what your house looks like. But it's a lot more complicated than that!

Before you judge someone on their disorganization - you might want to step back and take a look at their life and their environment.

The Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD) has a fact sheet that goes into some detail about what some of those factors are. 

Factors Associated with Disorganization

Disorganization can be caused by many factors. Determining the cause(s) of one’s disorganization and finding solutions to overcome it can be aided with the assistance of a professional organizer, particularly one trained in dealing with chronic disorganization.

Neurologically-Based Conditions

Structural/Environmental Factors

Lack of Skills

Lifestyle Choices

Communication Problems

Systemic Factors

Addictive Tendencies

Mental Health Issues

Difficulty Making Transitions

Aging Issues

Beliefs and Attitudes

Physical Challenges

Learning Style

Perfectionism

Life Crises

Attachments to Possessions

Learning Differences

Ineffective Beliefs about Possessions

Information-Processing Deficits

Emotional and/or Behavioral Patterns


For a copy of the fact sheet >>>>

Factors Associated with Disorganization


Less Clutter = Less Stress SM     in your home, your business and your life


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Monday, June 7, 2021

Do You Know Why You are Disorganized?

Not everyone in this world is organized. Some people are very disorganized. But the real question is - "do they know why?".

Most people don't.

So - be honest with yourself. Sit back and ponder a few questions.

Do you know why you are disorganized?

What bothers your about your disorganization?

What is not working for you?

Do you just "not" want to organize - because you don't have the time or don't know how or it's boring or you are just lazy? 

Does it cause you stress?

Do you not know what categories to put things into?

Do you "need" to leave things out - so that you know where they are?

Do you have a filing system in place for your paperwork?

Why do you want to get organized? What need would it fulfill?

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Once you  have some answers to these questions - you can begin the process of coming up with some solutions that will work "for you'.  And that is crucial to your success.  

Organizing is not a "one size fits all".  The solution has to "work for you".  It has to be uncomplicated so that you will actually use it.

For more information on how to get organized - call or email a Professional Organizer. 

We LOVE to ORGANIZE!

Less Clutter = Less Stress SM     in your home, your business and your life

Organizational Consulting Services

http://www.organizationalconsultingservices.com
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Visit our Life & Business Coaching website:  North By Northwest

*** check out the Products tab for self-paced workshops, planners and more.... 

 

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Buried in Treausures


 
 A Group to Address Hoarding Behavior
   
 The Buried in Treasures Workshop is about more than clutter...
· Overcoming challenges 
· Increasing motivation 
· Reducing acquiring
· Prioritizing and celebrating choices

Self-Help & Empowerment
For
Finders and Keepers

Is clutter getting in the way of how you want to live your life?
Are you feeling overwhelmed with too many possessions?
Are you embarrassed to have people over?

This program offers a 16-week course that is based on the book ‘Buried In Treasures’​.  Join us for this group created by and for people who are ready to live a less - cluttered life! 

​The Buried in Treasures group is for people who would like to learn tips on how to de-clutter and stop over-acquiring with people who know what it’s like. Each week we will have a discussion around a specific skill, followed by the completion of challenging and rewarding exercises. Individual progress, challenges, successes, and goals are also monitored throughout the sixteen weeks.

Participants are expected to commit to attending all the sessions as well as to participate actively.

A Buried in Treasures Group is forming >>>

*** this will be a VIRTUAL CLASS - anyone - anywhere can participate in the class

Sessions start:    Wednesday, September 9th, 2020  -  from 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm  -  Mountain Time


This group offers a judgment-free environment for people ready to make a change in their life.

Registration required. Call or email for more information.

(440) 666 – 9326 or  kefconsulting@gmail.com

**** Virtual Class available – Conference Style – by phone and/or computer - call /email for Starting Date / Time and to be put on a Waiting List for future classes

Monday, April 20, 2020

Things to Make Your Life Better While Physically Isolating


This COVID-19 crisis has radically changed our lives. Just a few months ago, we had no idea our 'world' would be confined to our homes!

This crisis is a powerful reminder of how important freedom is - and how much we need human connection! 

Remember you are not alone. Because what is DIFFERENT here is that everyone is impacted! Your neighbor, mom, boss and friends as well as your counterparts around the world are all going through something similar.

So, it's important to remember:

                  Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.  Viktor E. Frankl

This is the challenge each of us must rise to! If we're going to be stuck at home, we may as well make the most of it.

Here Are Some Things You Can do to Make Your Life Better while Physically Isolated:

1) Gain a New Skill with Online Learning:

There are so many opportunities online to gain a new skill and they're growing by the day!
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Grow your personal or creative skills or choose a new skill to learn and take back to work with online training providers like Coursera or Udemy.
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There are many other providers.
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If there's a skill you always wanted to learn, search for it. But be sure to read the course descriptions thoroughly, check reviews if there are any - and check money-back guarantees as you need to!

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And with so many learning options ranging from FREE to tens of dollars to the low hundreds of dollars, there will be something out there just perfect for you.
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2) Explore your Life Vision:

Rather than watching endless news streams, you can choose to focus on a bigger picture - your future. What do you want from the rest of your life? What would you be disappointed you did NOT do? Where do you envision yourself in 10 years?
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Having a clear vision of how you want your life to be is a powerful motivator. A vision helps us work towards our goals, take action and make change. Soon, we'll all be super-busy again - and a vision might be just what you need stay focused!
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Here are 5 questions to ponder or journal around to go deeper:
  • What do you desire or yearn for in your life?
  • How do you want to feel?
  • What do you really, really want to be different in your life?
  • What would have happened in 3 years time such that your life is spectacular and you feel magnificent about yourself?
  • What's your dream for this lifetime? Imagine you're 90 years old and looking back over your life; what did you do that made you proud and happy?
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TIP: Remember to think possibility not probability! Don't limit yourself and your ideas because you don't believe something is likely. Instead believe it's possible - and even if you don't get all the way there, you may get close - or even find something better along the way!
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3) Be in the moment:

In THIS moment you are OK. You are safe. Take one day at a time. One hour or even one breath at a time if you need to.
 
This tip is about being super-present, not thinking ahead or remembering the past, but practicing BEING.

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This is a PRACTICE - meaning you will have to do it over and over again - bringing yourself back to the NOW. Over time it gets easier, and it's a great skill to have to take back to "normal" life.
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So, when you notice you're worrying, feeling twitchy and want to pick up your device and find out what the "latest" is about the COVID situation, say to yourself, "It's OK. In this moment, I am safe. In this moment I am OK."  You can also add or say, "In this moment, my children/husband/family are safe."
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EXTRA TIP: Reduce or minimise how often you watch and read the news! And DON'T read or watch the news (or articles about COVID-19 or similar) just before bed!
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4) Laugh

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Distracting ourselves from our fears is a valid technique for feeling better!
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Laughter releases helpful chemicals in our bloodstream - Endorphins (our natural "happy" drug) and Dopamine (part of our bodily "reward" system).
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  • What are your favorite comedy shows?
  • Is there a comedian you like?
  • Netflix and similar have so many watching options, so find something that makes you laugh!
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IMPORTANT: We should NOT use over-use laughter as a distraction technique. And it shouldn't be used for ongoing and persistent fears in regular life. But for a situation like this, where this isn't much that any of us can do other than sit and wait - distraction can be a great coping mechanism.
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5) Be Kind!

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Kindness and compassion are one of the most powerful tools any of us have in our toolbox right now. Many of us are largely housebound, never mind the fear that you or a loved on might actually catch the COVID virus! So, of course we're going to feel unpleasant and weird.
  • Use kindness to comfort yourself when afraid or feeling anxious or fidgety. Be gentle. Imagine you're soothing a friend, small child or animal who is afraid - what would you say to them? Then say that to yourself!
  • Use kindness to give yourself - and others - the benefit or the doubt. Instead of getting upset when you see other people behaving badly, remember that we all do silly things when we're scared.
  • Imagine you have a kind, wise self. A part of you that is unflappable, intelligent and unconditionally loves ALL of you. Now, when you need it, imagine that kind, wise self is with you, supporting you, maybe giving you a hug - and saying exactly what you need to hear (not just the sugary stuff, but also the tough love and common sense).   

6) Help Others

Helping others is empowering and makes us feel better. Here are a few ways you could help others.
  • Check in on a neighbour or friend and see if they need anything. You can do this by phone, or in person, remembering to maintain a 6 feet distance.
  • Offer to get someone groceries if you're going.
  • Help someone less technically savvy learn how to use Zoom or WhatsApp or whatever they need to get online.
  • Host a virtual get-together with your regular friends.
  • Reconnect more deeply with friends or relatives who have moved away.

7) Live Your Values

When we know your values, we understand what motivates and drives us. When we build our lives around our values, we create a life that is meaningful. Finally, when we align our actions with our values - we're being truly authentic. It's a very satisfying and fulfilling way to live.
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And living your values could be the single most important thing any of us can do right now.Here's an exercise you can do:

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  • List your values on a piece of paper or in your journal.
  • Give each value a score ___ / 10 as to how well you are living that value in your life now (where 0 is not at all and 10 is full-out).
  • For the scores that are 8 or more - great!
  • For the scores that are 7 or less out of 10, ask yourself, "How could I express this value more in my life right now?" "What could I do differently or approach differently, so that I feel good about how I live this value in my life?"

For example: You have a value of creativity, but you're only managing to "go through the motions" right now and your score is 4/10. Ask yourself how you could be more creative during this time - whether it's cooking, gardening, are or writing or helping your kids do something creative, or even watching a documentary about someone creative you admire.
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For a copy of a Sample Values List – just send us an email with “Sample Values List” in the subject line and we will send you a copy of our list to help you with this exercise.
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8) De-Clutter

I bet you have some organizational things on your to-do list (like going through winter clothes, sorting out toys to donate or tidying the laundry closet, garage or shed) that have been on there for a while. Use this isolation period to get them done!
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Getting organized and de-cluttering allows us to exert some control over our lives - and therefore feel less helpless! Plus, it will feel amazing just to have it done.
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Organize your closets, your garage, your books, your photos, office, kitchen equipment. Whatever needs organizing. Or perhaps you need to go through your receipts or file your taxes!
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A simple 3 Step Method to go through your stuff:
 
  1. If you're keeping it, be sure to DECIDE where it will "live" from now on.
  2. If you're not keeping it, create two piles:
    • Things to GET RID OF
    • Things to DONATE (and if relevant to pass on to specific people).
  3. When you're done, put each pile into bags or boxes, and then once this crisis is over you can get rid of what you no longer need.
  • TIP: You don't need to do any of this 'in one sitting', do an hour a day - you'll be surprised how much you get done if you keep it up for a week!
 **** As a special gift to you – Organizational Consulting Services is offering $ 10/hr OFF of their Virtual Organizing services now through the end of May. 
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9) Grow Something - Or Get an Indoor Flowering Plant!


There is nothing quite like growing something - whether it's flowers, fruits or vegetables that makes us feel good! Even if you live in an apartment and you could grow fresh herbs on your windowsill or balcony to cook with!
  • Get some seeds, (a pot and some soil if needed) and get started.
  • Many plant nurseries are still open, or you could order seeds etc. online.
  • Follow the instructions - and remember to water it!
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If growing something is just too much work, get yourself a spring bulb or succulent (cacti) planter.

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It is really important to take care of yourself during this stressful time.  To find out where you are in the process and what you might need to change – I have created a “Self-Care Check-In” sheet that you can use to help you connect with yourself and find out what you may be needing.

If you would like a copy of “My Self-Care Check-In” – send me an email with “Self-Care Check-In” in the subject line and I will send you a copy.

Believe you have the skills and power to tackle this situation and you will! Choose to make the best of a difficult situation and no matter what - you'll find a way.

This current and strange COVID-19 situation will end. And when it does, you'll be proud you made the effort to learn something - whether it's about yourself, fresh knowledge, a new skill - and who knows what else!

*** If you are interested in a FREE Discovery Coaching Session to help you figure out what your next step will be – just email or fill out the contact form on our website.


Karin E. Fried, CPC, EMT-B, CTACC        Certified Life & Business Coach
North By Northwest                                     Pointing you in the Right Direction for your Life


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Less Clutter = Less Stress SM     in your home, your business and your life


Organizational Consulting Services


Visit our Life & Business Coaching website:  North By Northwest